I need some help

We have had alot of problems within this past year. Hubby lost his job and haven`t been able to get another one. He doesn`t qualify for unemployment since he quit for health and safety reasons.
We are having problems paying our most basic bills,trying to clothe our 3 kids and keep the vehicles running.
My father passed away in December of last year and we still have not done a thing for him since his passing.
There is only so much i can do with a slip disk in the neck. I have been in alot of pain and the added stress is not helping matters. Just to think Christmas will be here before i know it. The kids are badly needing some stuff like shoes and clothes and  stuff for school..Along with other stuff we need for everyday living. We also need to get dogfood and cafood as well. I am not willing to get rid of my pets, like are aprt of the family.
Thank you! ribbit, ribbit